BeautiFul sTranGER


Monday, December 18, 2006


When I stand up for
myself and my beliefs,
they call me a
bitch .
When I stand up for
those I love,
they call me a
bitch .

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
or do things my own way, they call me a
bitch .

Being a bitch
means I won't
compromise what's
in my heart.
It means I live my life
MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to
tolerate injustice and
speak against it, I am
defined as a
bitch .

The same thing happens when I take time for
myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.
I am outspoken,
opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me,
try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch ,
so be it.
I embrace the title and
am proud to bear it.
B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything


  • At December 18, 2006, Blogger Y.Y. said…

    very nice

  • At December 18, 2006, Blogger Open Up! said…

    i think i heard that before...cute!

  • At December 18, 2006, Blogger FunkyJew82 said…

    u go grrrrl! (hey ... somebody had to say it!)

  • At December 18, 2006, Blogger BagelUndertheCouch said…


  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger Pragmatician said…

    Good post,you just gave the B word a positive connotation.
    I bet many women are grateful.
    PS The things for which you were referred t as a B, is not what makes a B according to the old definition in any case.

  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger Sara with NO H said…

    I dont think I've ever been called a bitch to my face, but I can bet plenty of people have said it behind my back! lol
    THis was really cute.

  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger Sara with NO H said…

    I dont think I've ever been called a bitch to my face, but I can bet plenty of people have said it behind my back! lol
    THis was really cute.

  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger A Heimishe said…

    Bitch can be used in another good way according to the Dictionary.

    Bitch is a slang:
    Anything memorable, esp. something exceptionally good: "That last big party he threw was a real bitch."

  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger Lakewood Venter said…


  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger shy said…

    Cool! yes girl we love this a new twist to the word yyyyeeesss

  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger beautiful-stranger said…

    y.y: there is bee-atch and bitch...theres a big difference between those two thank you, ill take it as a compliment

    open up: doesnt hurt to hear it again. we all have to be reminded and encouraged every once n' a while

    funkyjew: thank you!! im goin' alright

    bagel: thank you!!

    pragmatician: welcome to the 21st century of reinvention.
    I realy think this word, or labeling in general, gets thrown around too easily...and "some" of us deserve to go by the reinventd definition.

    Is there a definition #2 for bastard? I wonder..I never came across it..

    sarah: I sure hope you havent been called a bitch in your face...Im sure you have behind your back though....
    I dont think ive ever been called that either...and i dont think i ever will..! not that material..way too nice for that..maybe a little too realy bragging, arent I....ill stop before i seriously start blushing lol.
    anyway, this post is just a few words of encouragement...and it might come in handy just in case ill ever need it..

    heimishe: was the party realy a bitch? am i invited?
    i agree it can be used positively too


  • At December 19, 2006, Blogger beautiful-stranger said…

    shy: theres a new twist for the word yes?

  • At December 20, 2006, Blogger shy said…

    I meant to say that I LOVE your post you give the B word a nice twist! Keep us smiling

  • At December 20, 2006, Blogger heimishinbrooklyn said…

    Girl Power!!

  • At December 21, 2006, Blogger A Heimishe said…

    The party WAS a bitch. You should register your name so you can be invited next time to the party.

  • At December 21, 2006, Blogger David_on_the_Lake said…


  • At December 23, 2006, Blogger beautiful-stranger said…

    shy: yes i did give the B word a postive twist

    heimsihinbrklyn: you have it all figurd out

    a heimishe: thanks for the tips, are girls free?

  • At December 23, 2006, Blogger Lakewood Venter said…

    You were saying?

  • At December 24, 2006, Blogger yingerman said…

    I somehow think that in real life you are a 'mekeleh' ;)

    "not that there's anything wrong with that!" J Seinfield

  • At December 24, 2006, Blogger chaverah said…


  • At December 24, 2006, Blogger Independent Frum Thinker said…

    With your definition, it is quite a compliment!

  • At December 25, 2006, Blogger Lvnsm27 said…

    I was called a bitch while on a metro bus. I was standing and carrying a white bag because I needed to bring something to someone and it must have tapped the man by mistake and he got really upset.

  • At December 26, 2006, Blogger Happy Huband said…


  • At December 26, 2006, Blogger beautiful-stranger said…

    lakewood: silence is sometimes stronger then words

    yingerman: youre very far off...but can I hire you as my psychic/fortune teller anyway?

    independent: its well deserved for some of us

    invsmn27: you should of sent him to me, I would of taken care of him

    shwarma: youre realy in love....!!
    with youre dear shwarma...
    it is indeed good...but i cant quite say i have it for breakfast everyday

  • At December 12, 2007, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    well i have learned your bitchology the hard way! WISH I HADNT! ; [ CENE


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